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soberrecovery.proboards44.com/index.cgi ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Mornning Glory) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/475 Sun, 30 Jan 2005 13:40:05 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/476/t/Heya-Codies.html feeds@yuku.com (GabeIsACodie) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/476 Thu, 23 Sep 2004 17:30:09 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/477/t/need-of-some-advice.html feeds@yuku.com (whatnow) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/477 Wed, 14 Apr 2004 14:28:53 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/478/t/My-son-is-a-alcoholic.html
My boy just got his 1st DUI at least 1st on paper. Before he left to go to Iraq he was stopped & jailed for DUI, but they let him go because he was leaving for Iraq.

Me & my husband had to bring him back to his apt.... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (true blue two) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/478 Tue, 06 Apr 2004 13:20:44 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/479/t/Alrighty-then.html Everything that could go wrong with the computers at work did. But our tech guy got us up and running again.
Two of my important message boards were down, so I was out of touch with my important people.
I couldn't track down anyone that I needed to find work-wise, because it seems everyone in the universe but me has taken this week off.
And... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (GabeIsACodie) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/479 Mon, 05 Apr 2004 17:11:43 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/480/t/Codependent-Relationships-Dynamics-part-1-2-3.html
Author: Robert Burney
Published on: June 1, 1999

“In our disease defense system we build up huge walls to protect ourselves and then - as soon as we meet someone who will help us to repeat our patterns of abuse, abandonment, betrayal, and/or deprivation - we lower the drawbridge and invite them in. We, in our Codependence, have radar systems which cause us to be attracted to, and attract to us, the people, who for us personally, are... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Mornning Glory) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/480 Mon, 05 Apr 2004 14:18:07 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/481/t/Taking-self-worth-out-of-the-equation-in-Relationships.html
Author: Robert Burney
Published on: January 27, 2004
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"One of the false beliefs that it is important to let go of, is the belief that we need another person in our lives to make us whole. As long as we believe that someone else has the power to make us happy then we are setting ourselves up to be victims.

A white knight is not going to come charging up to rescue us... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Mornning Glory) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/481 Mon, 05 Apr 2004 13:59:17 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/483/t/Characteristics-of-a-Codependent.html Following is a commonly used list of characteristics of codependency:
1. My good feelings about who I am stem from being liked by you.
2. My good feelings about who I am stem from receiving approval from you.
3. Your struggle affects my serenity. My mental attention focuses on solving your problems/relieving your pain.
4. My mental attention is focused on you.
5. My mental attention is focused on protecting you.
6. My... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (GabeIsACodie) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/483 Tue, 20 Jan 2004 20:52:35 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/484/t/We-re-over-here-Come-join-us.html
www.soberrecovery.com/forums ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Mornning Glory) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/484 Wed, 14 Jan 2004 12:07:41 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/482/t/WHAT-No-panicked-codies-.html ]]> feeds@yuku.com (smoke gets in my eyes) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/482 Wed, 26 Nov 2003 12:51:16 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/485/t/Al-Anon-readings-6-23.html
One Day at a Time in Al-Anon 6/23

What is to be done with the list of those we have harmed, as suggested in the Eighth Step? The Ninth suggests we make amends, “…wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.”

Prudent and honest self-searching will be necessary.

A casual apology, for example, is rarely enough to get rid of guilt for damaging criticism. It may, indeed, reopen an... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (barbiedeb) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/485 Mon, 23 Jun 2003 01:34:52 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/486/t/Al-Anon-readings-6-22.html
One Day at a Time in Al-Anon 6/22

Today I will consider, quietly and deeply, Step Eight: Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.”

The central thought is willingness – to admit our errors so we can clear our inner consciousness of guilt.

The only action this Step calls for is to make a list. I can... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (barbiedeb) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/486 Sun, 22 Jun 2003 13:22:22 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/487/t/Al-Anon-readings-6-21.html
One Day at a Time in Al-Anon 6/21

When my meditations on Steps Four, Five and Six have convinced me I am ready to be delivered from a hampering defect of character, the next Step, number Seven, suggests asking God to remove it.

Step Seven, as it is stated, does imply removal of all my shortcomings, but I must deal with each one individually, as I express it in my daily activities. I must ask God, over and... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (barbiedeb) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/487 Sun, 22 Jun 2003 13:21:04 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/488/t/Al-Anon-readings-6-20.html
One Day at a Time in Al-Anon 6/20

The Sixth Step is an inspiring challenge to surrender ourselves to the guidance of our Higher Power. I will read this serenely beautiful statement of submission to God’s will as often as I have need of it: “Were entirely read to have God remove all these defects of character.”

My goal will be to make myself “entirely ready” – to let go of the negative habits of thought that... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (barbiedeb) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/488 Sun, 22 Jun 2003 12:25:03 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/490/t/Al-Anon-readings-6-19.html
One Day at a Time in Al-Anon 6/19

The self-searching suggested by Step Four is a long-term undertaking. It must go on for as long as I remain blind to the flaws which create so much trouble for me.

I must go on day after day trying to face myself as I am, and to correct whatever is keeping me from growing into the person I want to be.

As I review each day and think over the consequences of what I have... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (barbiedeb) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/490 Sat, 21 Jun 2003 09:47:59 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/491/t/Al-Anon-readings-6-18.html
One Day at a Time in Al-Anon 6/18

The Greek philosopher Socrates said: “Know Thyself.” Step Four tells us how to go about it, making “a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.” We are to see ourselves as we really are – our characters, motives, attitudes and actions.

A deeply rooted habit of self-justification may tempt me to explain away each fault as I uncover it. Will I blame others for what I... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (barbiedeb) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/491 Sat, 21 Jun 2003 05:29:55 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/492/t/Courage-to-Change-ODAT-in-Al-Anon-II-6-20.html My best alternative is to... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (barbiedeb) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/492 Fri, 20 Jun 2003 14:14:08 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/493/t/Yee-Gads-.html Hi everyone!!

JT
]]> feeds@yuku.com (Junec01) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/493 Fri, 20 Jun 2003 07:22:45 GMT http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/494/t/The-12-Steps-of-Al-Anon.html
1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - and that our lives had become unmanageable.

2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

5, Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (angelannies) http://recoveryunlimited.yuku.com/topic/494 Thu, 19 Jun 2003 13:44:11 GMT